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Re: Trashing the ex
      05/14/08 03:05 PM (12.19.225.242)
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Malone --

I know that his behavior was obvious and public and would have gotten around anyway. But, I do think the message my children would have gotten by my having been more private would have been valuable.

They still love their Dad so every one of my negative comments wounded them. They didn't need that from their Mom. They could have seen me handle it with strength and dignity and good boundaries - just not the occasional snide comment.

Believe me, the dirt is gonna be out there -- I just don't want to be the one dishing it.

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* Trashing the ex MarMcMar 05/14/08 02:18 PM
. * * Re: Trashing the ex tookway2much   05/18/08 08:08 AM
. * * Re: Trashing the ex happytobdivorced   05/19/08 11:44 AM
. * * Re: Trashing the ex Calico   05/17/08 06:48 PM
. * * Re: Trashing the ex newlife123   05/17/08 07:16 PM
. * * Re: Trashing the ex stoltz   05/14/08 05:11 PM
. * * Re: Trashing the ex mfergel   05/14/08 05:19 PM
. * * Re: Trashing the ex chatter box   05/14/08 06:05 PM
. * * Re: Trashing the ex juliacinaz   05/14/08 07:31 PM
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. * * Re: Trashing the ex tiredofnagging   05/16/08 11:33 PM
. * * Re: Trashing the ex Robfrommichigan   05/17/08 01:05 AM
. * * Re: Trashing the ex taryn   05/14/08 07:47 PM
. * * Re: Trashing the ex mrpat   05/14/08 05:06 PM
. * * Re: Trashing the ex mfergel   05/14/08 05:09 PM
. * * Re: Trashing the ex malone   05/14/08 02:54 PM
. * * Re: Trashing the ex MarMcMar   05/14/08 03:05 PM
. * * Re: Trashing the ex HardKnox   05/14/08 03:03 PM
. * * Re: Trashing the ex Motor-Head   05/14/08 03:20 PM
. * * Re: Trashing the ex MarMcMar   05/14/08 03:06 PM
. * * Re: Trashing the ex HardKnox   05/14/08 03:13 PM
. * * Re: Trashing the ex Motor-Head   05/14/08 02:42 PM
. * * Re: Trashing the ex MarMcMar   05/14/08 02:46 PM

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