My ex and I have put a clause in our divorce decree that we have to ask each other first if we can babysit before asking anyone else. He asked me to watch our daughter tomorrow, but he wants me to come to his house, where he has his pregnant (ex) girlfriend staying/sleeping and watch our child there. I am really uncomfortable with the idea of going to the house I used to share with him, and having to remain there, because he expects me to. If he asks me to watch our daughter because he is busy, doesn't that mean I should be able to watch her at my own house, and put her to sleep there? I have her the next day and he isn't returning until 11pm. It seems logical that he would just drop her off at my house for the night and he can go out and do what he wants to do. If he asks me to take care of her because he is busy, shouldn't I be able to do it on my own terms? Am I being unreasonable?
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