Quote: Maybe the scenario you describe is true of most women, but it’s not true for me. I would be more apt to accept an invitation from a balding, little over weight man that struck up a conversation at church, than a drop-dead gorgeous guy that tried a blatant, cheesy pick-up line at the grocery store. I wouldn’t describe myself as a ten, but I know I’m not a six!!
You have to admit that if the drop dead gorgeous guy has a brain, charisma, and shows an interest in you, that you won't just dismiss him. Those are the things that help formulate chemistry.
Everyone wants the same end result. Chemistry. The difference is what gets the person a foot in the door. For some people, they have to have an emotional connection, a compatible personality, and not look like a troll. For others, the order is different. My personal preferences are looks and then personality. Those two form chemistry which makes me want to date you. The emotional connection comes later.