I'm the same way. There has to be some physical attraction but I'm finding that I look at women a little differently than I used to. I'm more willing to give women that I might not have considered my type more of a chance, like my date tonight. Not so much the physical aspect either, but she's into NASCAR and is a smoker. Neither is a big turn on for me so she'd have to be better looking in person than the picture I've seen and/or have a fantastic personality......but it's just a date. Nothing more.