the decree states that each parent must ask the other to babysit before asking anyone else. I guess that is vague. I know it is nice to wake up with her and get her ready for school, and I can see why he would want to spend that time with her, but I just do not want to spend any time in that house. I also don't want to make this into a fight with him. Any ideas on how I can approach him with this without causing a freak out session with him? We definitely don't get along very well, and if he feels I am being unreasonable he will react very strongly and go into attack mode. I do want to be with my daughter though. I don't want to tell him to ask someone else, because I want to be with her.
any ideas?
ps Hi everybody!
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