"Now all I can think about is this other guy with her. The divorce is final, other girls have expressed interest in me, but I'm just not ready to do anything. She's really destroyed me in the way she's done all this."
Breathe and let it go. It will destroy you if you ALLOW such thoughts to take over. It’s done, it’s finished…now start living and be responsible for you. Think about it…doesn’t it feel good when the only person you have to please is yourself? May be there is something wrong with me, but I'm beginning to get excited about life (too much Dr. Phil 'Phil'osophy goin on ...but he's got a good point.)