Divorce Support Forums: Can we still work things out????

I have been there before. My husband went overseas about 1 month before I went so that I could finish up my job and get everything settled before we left. However, we got into a huge fight before he left and we went back and forth about whether or not I should come to Europe. Anyways, it is a long story, but I was in your shoes almost exactly, sitting in the US wondering if I should move overseas or not. I decided to go ahead and move. It wasn't an easy decision at all. I decided to do it because I wasn't 100% sure that it was over and I figured if it were over at least I know that I tried everything that I could. And if it didn't work out, then I could move on with my life easier knowing that I tried. I moved over and I made us go to counceling, he reluctantly went with me. However, that really seemed to work and we got along great for a few years. But now I am here in Europe and we are due to PCS in a few months and I'm back on the divorce message boards searching frantically for an answer again. Things went well for a while, but I think we have just grown apart and there have been way too many deployments. So I do sympathize with you, and I know exactly the struggle you are going through. I would advise to go and give it one more shot. Only one of two things can happen, it will work out and you will be happily married, or it won't work, but you can move on knowing that you have given it everything you have and it still didn't work. Also don't lose contacts in the States, you may need them!

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