Thanks for the replys. Kat-this is the initial meeting with the parenting class. My stress level is through the roof. Some issues: I have no problem with the ROFR. But after that he wants to dictate who can watch them and for how long.
He wants me to agree to a lower amount and then even lower once our children are in school full time. I me who even know where we will both be in three years!!
Before going to daycare they were with a friend of the family (four years they were with this women). He does not like her and does not trust her, and now wants me to agree that the girls only see her at my house while I am here to supervise. I trust her.
It just picky stuff like that. Once he loses his temper its not a pretty sight. I mean when he found out I filed for support he came looking for me. By my house, my gym, my girlfriends house, etc. Who does that???? I just want to be strong tomorrow. I can not allow him to get to me.