[quote)++++how about we change that to the questions that I have been asked..."mommy how come daddy has a brand new television and just got this huge tax refund but you haven't gotten new clothing in years, we can't go to McDonalds and he won't help so I can play soccer?" "How come you can't bring us to Chuck E Cheese like daddy does?" "How come daddy uses all his cell phone minutes to call his new girlfriend, but hasn't called us in 3 weeks?" "How come daddy lives in a 4 bedroom house by himself, but the 3 of us live in a 2 bedroom apt?" "How come you have to work 2 jobs but daddy doesn't?" "Why does daddy cuss and scream in my face?" "Why did daddy ask me if I was a virgin and threaten to bring me to the doctor to have my hymen examined when he didn't believe me?" "Why did daddy grab me by the throat and hold me up against the wall?" "Why did daddy smack me in the head when he knew I was recovering from sinus surgery?" "Why did daddy lie to the cops and say I was being unruly instead of telling them that he dragged me through the house after scraping my back along the bed rail because I couldn't get my shoes on fast enough?" Those JBAR are the true questions I have gotten. What you are suggesting hasn't remotely happened to any MAN that I know of...that's why is so much crap++ [/quote]
Now pretend your a mother who has to deal with those questions...and a lot more, I'd really like to know what are you going to respond to those kids? Try explaining to THEM why their dad who professes love for them treats them this way & why no one can seem to do anything about it. You can spew as much hateful nonsense my way as you want JBAR, you really have NO friggin' clue what a lot of people go through...men, women and kids alike. I don't have the luxury of trying to give my kids some fairytale life that you appear to think that women steal...I deal with REAL issues, REAL problems and not contrived scenarios.