Divorce Support Forums: should i try marriage counseling?

My husband says he doesn't want to work things out and he usually says it when he gets upset, stressed and mad. Then later on he calls and says he's sorry for being mad and rude over the phone and he didn't mean any of those things he said. This wouldn't be the first time that he's had an outburst and claiming he wants a divorce and that our marriage was a mistake. I feel like he married me for all the wrong reasons and i married him for all the right reason or so i thought. I love him but i don't know if i can keep going with the emotional ups and downs with him. He has already emotionally, mentally, and verbally abused me. Also, there's another woman who he keeps calling. They say they're just friends but i don't believe him especially her!! sad thing is he introduce me to her, but this is before I sense that something was going on. I mean, how are you to react when that person calls him in the middle of the night to discuss what!? and when i answer the damn phone she hangs up! i confronted him about it and told him how i felt and he promised he wouldn't contact her. But he lied and they were still talking to each other and sending each other lovey dovey txt msg... he tried to erase everything off his cell to make it look like he hadn't contacted anyone all day but i know what he's been up to because when the bill comes... he's caught!! Then he gets mad at me saying that I'm being childish and stupid and starts cussing me out. And asking me why am i snooping around for? I use to trust him but he has hurt me too many times for me to just easily forgive him.We got in a fight over that and he says i'm just trying to look for something to accuse him of doing wrong. But the thing is I just want him to be honest and have integrity to face up and be a man!! I don't know. I'm just wondering if this marriage is worth enough to save it.

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