Thanks for the reply. Actually, I did get a restraining order on Apr 11, had it extended after the 10 days until Jul 22; so that's in place. I went to the judge ad-hoc in Plymouth County (where I got divorced) on the day I got the extension (on Apr 22) for emergency ex-parte motions; he told me there was no emergency as I had the RO in place, but that I could come back during normal Motion scheduling and table them.
He seemed good with the idea, and as there was just me in the room with him and the court reporter, I was emboldened to ask if a Change of Venue was in order; he seemed to think it could be.
Thus, I tabled the motions, prepared the Proposed Orders, etc. I am doing this pro se.