stick to your guns next month. and don't back off of what the guidelines say. you have him the opportunity for a lesser amount.
is he using any car seats for the girls? does he still have the car that seats won't fit in? i'd be having a royal fit if my girls weren't properly secured in car/booster seats.
remember...he's not the man you were married to. they change, actually we all change, but i'm seeing the divorce brings out the worst in some people.
-------------------- What you reap is what you sow and so it goes...