"emotional affair"... I've heard of it, and that's exactly what it is. I tried talking to him about it and how i feel but he insist that there is nothing going on and I can think whatever because I'm being childish. I'm just letting him know how I feel and I asked him how he would feel if I was to do the same exact thing to him and he said he wouldn't care cause we would be even. But he knows and I know I wouldn't do a thing like that. I feel used though, and I asked him on how he feels about having our son and we would go out on dates just the two of us so we try to keep from falling apart. He says he just stressed from work but why confide in another woman when he has me i asked him. he just gi8ves me a blank expression and says i'm being stupid. funny thing is we were very close like best friends but now it's justb as if we drifted apart somewhere along the way when he started to talk to her. ugh! i'm so sick of it all, sometimes i wish i can just sleep an eternal sleep and never wakeup!