Gigi's response was the only one that had come about by the time I left to pick up our child from school this afternoon. From there, we were off to see the new Narnia, and straight back to the school for the meeting.
In thinking about her recent notions of wanting Mom, Dad and BF to all be friends, I asked her, "What do you think of BF attending the meeting at the school?" She jumped on it, "That would be COOL!" She paused for a moment and then said, "But Dad is going to be mad." She paused yet again and said, "Maybe we can hide BF in a costume or something so Dad won't know he's there."
I went with my gut and her desire to have the BF there (sans costume). Everyone behaved, and based on the individual warm fuzzy responses the BF and I both received from her on an exchange night (leaving at separate times as we had houseguests waiting on us), I realize it was the right thing to do for HER. She was genuinely proud.