To answer the OP question,as long as everyone is trying to work in the interest of the children I wouldnt mind a step attending any function, be it a ball game, a school play, a school conference. As long as the parents can be parents and not act like the children they are trying to raise then I dont see the problem. It may be a bit uncomforatable at times (for the adults) but we do things for the kids sake. The more people that genuinly sp love my kids and try to help them grow as people the better.
That sounds good in theory and I will have to report back on if I am actually able to put it into practice concerning my ex and her cheatie.
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