Two girls, make sure you go for the gusto. l6 year olds don't shop at walmart or Target..bathing suits alone can be $50 and up!!!! And jeans and shoes...crazy! Good luck tomorrow and don't let him bully you! What is your current visitation plan and how long has that been going on? [/quote]
And that's why guys get so upset and make the cracks about ex-wifes always seeing an atm when they look at them. 16 year-old girls shop wherever mom can afford to shop and if they don't like it, they find a job to pay for it themselves.
Ask for what you need for the next few years. Figure out the increased costs when the time comes. If you play it fair with him, he might be easier to deal with as they grow up. Act like he's worth nothing more than money and watch how fast he disappears.