Unlike child support, spousal support is often very difficult (if not impossible) to modify after the divorce is final, so getting it right the first time is a must!
From a bankers point of view, always write a check. We only keep records for so long and if she claims you didnt pay her 15 years down the road and its set up on a draft, you cant find your statement, your out of luck.
-------------------- Forget waiting for the storm to pass
Learn to dance in the rain