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Re: More Pained than Positive Today
      05/17/08 10:01 PM (71.110.187.127)
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Malone, you are right, it does help to see those stages written out again. I am clearly in the depression stage. I feel sad and anxious, but I also know that it is over and that once the grief is lessened that I will be able to accept that it is over. I keep telling myself that I miss him so much, then I think about what it was like for the past few years and there really isn't much to miss. I miss the dream of what I hoped for. That dream will never happen with him, and probably never could have. But that doesn't mean that I am done dreaming, it just means that it is much harder to trust that you will ever get the chance again. I am terrified of being alone for the rest of my life, but I know that is a very real possibility. I think that much of my grief is about that very fear.

Patty

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* More Pained than Positive Today PainedPatty 05/17/08 10:04 AM
. * * Re: More Pained than Positive Today malone   05/17/08 09:25 PM
. * * Re: More Pained than Positive Today PainedPatty   05/17/08 10:01 PM
. * * Re: More Pained than Positive Today malone   05/18/08 02:48 AM
. * * Re: More Pained than Positive Today boobaby   05/17/08 06:19 PM
. * * Re: More Pained than Positive Today PinkRose   05/17/08 10:13 AM
. * * Re: More Pained than Positive Today mfergel   05/17/08 10:17 AM
. * * Re: More Pained than Positive Today numbnms   05/17/08 10:27 AM
. * * Re: More Pained than Positive Today scbeck   05/17/08 03:55 PM
. * * Re: More Pained than Positive Today PainedPatty   05/17/08 05:07 PM
. * * Re: More Pained than Positive Today Books29   05/17/08 10:37 AM

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