I must be missing something because I really dont think she is smart enough to do what you are suggesting.She honestly thinks like her mother has ,that because she is the mother then she is an angel ,a saint and the father is automatically the jerk because he is the man.The mother has been a BULLY for years and now she has taken on that role. It was my sons weekend and we took them about 60 miles from our home to a zoo.My son had told her that we were going to take them with him and the mother got poed because I never mentioned it to her myself although the father had.We are supose to ask her permission and we didnt.Yet it was our sons,the fathers weekend.She said that even he has to ask permission.When I have more time I will fill you in on all that she has and all that she doesnt and you can tell me what you think.