Hubby never asked for a pre-nup, although I did suggest at one point that he go ahead and have one drawn up. I am glad that he chose not to simply because I feel we have more of a partnership that's not defined by what is his and what is mine. I would have signed one that had been clearly spelled out in terms of not just what's his is his and mine is mine but how to determine the responsibility that we have towards keeping things that way or some type of fair reimbursement for helping the other further their investment and also covering the kids. The other legality is covered by our wills and life insurance policies. I have 3 children with two ex's and will soon have 2 children with hubby. If something happens to just me, the children will all go live with their dads...if something happens to both me and my hubby then I have 2 children that would be orphans and thus need more $$ to be raised to age 18 then the 3 that have fathers that will support them.