Unlike child support, spousal support is often very difficult (if not impossible) to modify after the divorce is final, so getting it right the first time is a must!
[quote]From a bankers point of view, always write a check. We only keep records for so long and if she claims you didnt pay her 15 years down the road and its set up on a draft, you cant find your statement, your out of luck. [/quote]
well i'm more apt to keep a statement than remember to print out the monthly cashed check online. I have every single statement since i opened the account in 1989...dont ask me where they all are though. :)
or are you saying they can get a copy of an older check more easily than a bank statement?
-------------------- call me WWIL...PA resident 39 year old , married 11 years, together 12...splitting in 13th year.