Divorce Support Forums: mother refuses to cooperate

sorry about the long post...its just hard to get good advice unless the whole story is out there.My son did go to the school,got records found out the child is failing had all kinds of unexcused absences,tardy a few times,etc...he now has the school sending him the same thing they send home to mommy and the principal told him they couldnt stop him from taking the child but ask him not to put them in that position.Of course he isnt but to know the mommy didnt get the upper hand like she claimed is a releif.We have documented everything that has went on in the past three years,but it doesnt look like the judge will get to see any of it.The mommy was even reported for letting a minor have booze in her home but DHR found no merit.Of course she is going to lie to them.There is NNNNNOOOOOOO court order of any kind.Not for custody temp or otherwise ,not for child support,not for supervised visits,but the mommy tells us that if my son tries to take the kids anywhere she will come get them and keep them from him until they get an order.Wont my sons present doctor records count now and not the ones he had three years ago.??The mommy really has been a BULLY and she has been lead to think that the lawyer will get just what she has demanded.Her lawyer doesnt know the whole story.Wouldnt even her lawyer want to see court ordered supervised visits before he can even tell her thats going to stick??My sons lawyer told him that she wouldnt go along with the supervised visits because that wont be good for him..The real kicker is that my hubby and I are the supervised parties!!Dah,his visits arent supervised as far as the court will know.he comes to our home because we enjoy having the children too and he is in the middle of getting his own place.OK.......NOw what do you think will happen???

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