If I've read and understood PA law correctly, your soon-to-be-ex cannot stop you from a divorce. He can only prolong it. As far as stopping you from your new b/f, he cannot. But your new beau may have to get a restraining order if your ex causes that much trouble. The courts will take care of the rest and, frankly, your ex is not on solid ground when it comes down to it due to his conviction. But see a lawyer and get all the legal info you can regarding his rights. Good luck!