Divorce Support Forums: Keeping a phone log...

My hubby suggested that I log down every conversation that I have with ex, every phone call and voice mail and also make a note of dates he has talked to the kids.
I wish I had started two months ago as it would be clear that he started harassing me when I didn't respond to him the way he expected.
Hubby thinks that ex is trying to document my lack of cooperation...but I think a bigger issue would be if he tried to say that I was keeping him from talking to the kids, which I'm not.
Here's what I got:
Home phone:
4/29 - 6:41 J called home phone & talked to kids
5/6 - 6:42 - J called home phone & talked to kids
5/7 - J talked to J, J tried to set up visitation through J and I said that he needed to discuss with me. He said he'd call me later.
5/10 - Jo called dad via cell phone, I spoke with J in regards to visitation time.
5/11 - 7:43 pm - J calls asking to speak to me
5/12 6:41 pm - J leaves message for me
5/13 6:33 pm - J leaves message for me
5/14 - continual phone calls...Harassment has started & I unplug phone during day as my hubby works 3rd shift, no caller id. but noted that he was calling home phone multiple times during daytime hours.
5/16 4:45 pm - J leaves message for me
5/17 5:31 pm - J leaves message for me
5/18 - calls at some time during day but kids are busy and don't pick up the phone.
5/19 11:53 am - J leaves message for me
5/21 8:24 pm - E talks to dad and he asks her to give me message. Says he doesn't have time to talk to J.
5/22 7:59 am - leaves v/m
5/22 8:00 am - calls but leaves no message

Cell phone calls
5/11 - 6:42 pm - suggests taking J June 1st
5/12 - 5:41 pm - v/m to call him back
5/13 - 9:40 am - v/m to call him back
5/13 - AM - I returned call & told him kids are not out of school on June 1st, phone died mid-conversation.
5/13 - 11:00 am - v/m asking for date kids get out of school
5/13 - 6:31 pm - J talks to dad, dad asks for me. length of call 46 sec - I think phone cut out?
5/14 - 3:03 pm - v/m to call him back.
5/14 - 6:31 pm - E talks to dad, dad asks for me. length of call 1:59 sec.
5/14 - 8:34 pm - v/m to call him back.
5/15 - 5:32 pm - v/m to call him back.
5/15 - 6:37 pm - leaves page to call at ###
5/15 - 6:37:55 - leaves page to call at #
5/15 - 6:38 pm -
5/15 - 6:38:26 - leaves page to call at ###
5/15 - 6:39:12 - leaves page to call at #
5/15 - 6:39:39 - leaves page to call at ###
I return call - 5/16 - 6:30 am - I leave message for him that I'm returning his call.
5/16 - 3:44 pm - said missed call, phone on vibrate...call him back.
5/17 - 12:07 pm- v/m to call him back
5/17 - 5:31:35 - leaves page to call at ###
5/18 - 6:12 pm - leaves v/m to call back
5/19 - 11:50 am - leaves v/m to call back & asking to speak to kids.
I return call - 5/19 - 12:05 pm - tell him date that kids are out of school, that he may not take J in June & phone cuts out.
5/19 - 12:06 pm - he leaves v/m with condascending remark and asking to call him back.
5/19 - 6:36 pm - v/m to call back
5/19 - 9:33 pm - leaves insulting v/m & asks for call back
5/19 - 9:34:20 - leaves page to call at ###
5/20 - 12:03 pm - leaves v/m stating wants to talk to kids
I text "my phone isn't working properly can only text intermittently...t mobile suks n keeps giving me $credits but cant seem to fix problem.
5/20 - 12:04 pm - leaves v/m asking to call & says wants to talk to kids - they are obviously in school however.
5/20 - 12:09 pm - leaves v/m demanding I pick up the phone
5/20 - 12:09:28 - in response to me texting him that I am having prob. with phone and can only intermittently text due to the service issues - texts, "then answer your phone so we can talk about visitation"
5/20 - 12:10 pm -
5/20 - 12:10:52 - leaves page to call at ###
5/20 - 12:12 pm - leaves v/m telling me to pick up my phone.
I text "took several attempts to send last text n I don't have long distance on any other phone...already told u no june"
5/20 - 12:18:36 - texts," your home phone is not working either? If thats the case then e-mail me. This is my new address ...incorrect e-mail address"
5/20 - 12:22:01 - texts, "correct e-mail address"
5/20 - I send e-mail stating "The kids are out of school on June 4th, you should be responsible enough to look up dates pertaining to their school on the website if you didn't keep the calendar mailed to you at the beginning of the school year. You cannot take J in June. I recently mailed you a request for medical reimbursement and included pictures of E in her ROTC uniform. Stop calling me repeatedly"
5/21 - 11:43 am - leaves v/m stating that his e-mail is not working properly and cannot receive incoming e-mail due to change in internet services. Also asking to speak to the kids though knowing full well that they are in school.
5/21 - 8:22 pm - leaves v/m stating that he is mailing letters?

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