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Re: Just starting out....
      05/24/08 09:48 AM (24.8.144.220)
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"Joint PHYSICAL custody with the mother as the primary CP is the norm at least 92% of the time, with Dad (NCP) getting "visitation" between an occasional supervised dinner up to liberal, which is every other weekend and on night during the week, 30-40% of the time."

I was advised by my lawyer not to get wrapped around the axle about the "primary" designation. In my state at least, it has minimal legal significance. You can have minority of parenting time and still be the "primary custodian" or "primary residence". It doesn't change CS calculations. It doesn't affect the way you interact with schools or medical providers. If you can negotiate an acceptable parenting schedule with joint legal custody, stop fighting, sign the papers and get on with life.

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* Just starting out.... tiredofnagging 05/10/08 12:07 AM
. * * Re: Just starting out.... KGrow   05/23/08 11:10 AM
. * * Re: Just starting out.... EZmark   05/23/08 01:06 PM
. * * Re: Just starting out.... KGrow   05/24/08 09:48 AM
. * * Re: Just starting out.... Samsung   05/24/08 12:48 PM
. * * Re: Just starting out.... tiredofnagging   05/24/08 12:54 PM
. * * Re: Just starting out.... tiredofnagging   05/24/08 01:02 PM
. * * Re: Just starting out.... Jada   05/24/08 03:37 PM
. * * Re: Just starting out.... tiredofnagging   05/24/08 07:21 PM
. * * Re: Just starting out.... Jada   05/24/08 08:06 PM
. * * Re: Just starting out.... ATVILLAS   05/24/08 08:29 PM
. * * Re: Just starting out.... Jada   05/24/08 08:51 PM
. * * Re: Just starting out.... ATVILLAS   05/24/08 08:54 PM
. * * Re: Just starting out.... Jada   05/24/08 08:03 PM
. * * Re: Just starting out.... tiredofnagging   05/24/08 09:19 PM
. * * Re: Just starting out.... tiredofnagging   05/24/08 09:23 PM
. * * Re: Just starting out.... ttina   05/24/08 07:52 PM
. * * Re: Just starting out.... mrpat   05/24/08 07:40 PM
. * * Re: Just starting out.... EZmark   05/24/08 11:22 AM
. * * Re: Just starting out.... EZmark   05/15/08 11:39 PM
. * * Re: Just starting out.... mistake#2   05/15/08 11:49 PM
. * * Re: Just starting out.... EZmark   05/16/08 01:15 AM
. * * Re: Just starting out.... taryn   05/13/08 04:43 PM
. * * Re: Just starting out.... Jada   05/10/08 07:28 AM
. * * Re: Just starting out.... tiredofnagging   05/10/08 11:24 AM
. * * Re: Just starting out.... Jada   05/13/08 09:24 PM
. * * Re: Just starting out.... Jada   05/15/08 09:47 PM
. * * Re: Just starting out.... juliacinaz   05/15/08 09:17 PM
. * * Re: Just starting out.... stoltz   05/23/08 01:26 PM
. * * Re: Just starting out.... tiredofnagging   05/23/08 04:32 PM
. * * Re: Just starting out.... tiredofnagging   05/23/08 02:45 PM
. * * Re: Just starting out.... taryn   05/24/08 12:42 AM
. * * Re: Just starting out.... tiredofnagging   05/23/08 03:18 PM
. * * Re: Just starting out.... tiredofnagging   05/16/08 11:14 PM
. * * Re: Just starting out.... Jada   05/18/08 09:23 AM
. * * Re: Just starting out.... juliacinaz   05/18/08 09:34 AM
. * * Re: Just starting out.... tiredofnagging   05/18/08 12:05 PM
. * * Re: Just starting out.... taryn   05/23/08 10:55 AM
. * * Re: Just starting out.... Jada   05/18/08 12:39 PM
. * * Re: Just starting out.... tiredofnagging   05/18/08 10:40 PM
. * * Re: Just starting out.... tiredofnagging   05/19/08 01:40 AM
. * * Re: Just starting out.... Jada   05/19/08 06:22 AM
. * * Re: Just starting out.... tiredofnagging   05/19/08 02:59 PM
. * * Re: Just starting out.... cubsfan   05/19/08 08:22 PM
. * * Re: Just starting out.... tiredofnagging   05/19/08 09:46 PM
. * * Re: Just starting out.... tiredofnagging   05/22/08 11:07 PM
. * * Re: Just starting out....Focus on ending EZmark   05/23/08 09:16 AM
. * * Re: Just starting out....Focus on ending tiredofnagging   05/23/08 11:28 AM
. * * Re: Just starting out....Focus on ending ttina   05/23/08 12:20 PM
. * * Re: Just starting out.... mrpat   05/19/08 03:08 PM
. * * Re: Just starting out.... tiredofnagging   05/19/08 03:22 PM
. * * Re: Just starting out.... juliacinaz   05/18/08 12:13 PM
. * * Re: Just starting out.... tiredofnagging   05/18/08 12:16 PM
. * * Re: Just starting out.... juliacinaz   05/18/08 09:15 AM
. * * Re: Just starting out.... tookway2much   05/12/08 07:34 AM
. * * Re: Just starting out.... tiredofnagging   05/13/08 04:22 PM

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