Divorce Support Forums: visitation by default?

After I refused to give an answer to the next set of suggested dates...I told him it would be irresponsible of me to just say yes or no without doing any research in regards to flight information, medical information to a date he just pulled out of his butt...so he told me he knew what I was trying to do and had already contacted FOC. So I asked why he was even discussing with me then if he thought I had an agenda and just discuss it with them then.
He said they told him if I did not give him an answer to a date that he would automatically by default get the last 4 weeks of summer.
How can that be when there is no summer visitation order period?
Is he full of crap or getting poor advice from FOC?
He even stated that there is no court order for visitation time, so he was hoping to work out a date with me...which doesn't make sense because he's never wanted to work out anything before, even agreed that he has never wanted to before but does this time.
Is he afraid that if he takes it to FOC himself that I WILL be able to force less visitation time? I showed my cards though by telling him if he was looking for an immediate answer from me then he could have the last week of summer with supervised visitation...because otherwise I was unable to give him one right now without having any further information.
I'm just going to sit back now and wait for FOC to contact me on a mediation date, and if he continues to call me repeatedly I will have to go ahead and file a report asking for a no contact order as he has challenged me in that regard telling me if I think I can get it then go ahead.

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