She will not and never let him back, especially since he has stated that he will be friends with the other woman. LOL. Like I said, her kids are in a bad way, in fact one of the girls has stated she wants nothing to do with him. One say he will rue what he has done. That all said, she has tried to cut down on expenses. She drives an older Honda, but she wants to stay in the house for the kids sake. Worst part is that they have almost no equity. She has been stashing cash, whenever she buys groceries, she uses her debit and sneaks out extra cash.
But her main problem is emotional. This guy has wrecked her self worth to the point that she has almost no confidence in herself. My issues pale in comparison I guess.
My wife does recognize her behavior is not appropriate and has said she will see a psychologist and get on anti-depression meds. We had a serious talk last night. This is when I heard about her sister-in-laws situation. So we decided that if she does work on her issues I will work on my resentment and maybe our love will return. We don't want to disturb our daughter's life.
If things don't work out I'll know I've done everything I can. I will never mindf*ck her.
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