i guess i really want to know how long until im going to get ditched. LOL.
i probably mostly need guys' input here, cuz im a girl...DATING guys and as i girl i really dont know what the answer is...
So i go out with this nice guy who kind of likes me. But im not that into him. He's alluded to a zillion more ideas he has in the near future, so im sure ill go out with him a few more times. Now I just want to be FRIENDS, and i dont want to hurt his feelings (this really is NOT going to go anywhere) SO there can be no sex.
Meanwhile, sigh, someone i dated before, that I liked, wants to see me again. Thing is im PRETTY sure, he'll play me again, but im curios if his 'lines' are lines or what so im willing to take the risk (guarded though!) Now i was involved a bit with this guy before but i want to test the waters and see what the deal is.
Now i am aware that neither of these situations is probably a good idea.....but im still going to proceed (with caution.)
Here's the deal though. How many times can i go out with either of these guys before there's the sex issue?
I cant really sleep with either of these guys if im going out with both of them, because THAT is GROSS! I cant sleep with the first guy...cuz that would be mean. and i need to wait to see if the second guy is playing me before i decide what im going to do.
So how many dates? or How long can 2 adults date before this becomes a problem?
taryn....a bit old fashioned in thinking sex should not be casual and refuses to date more than one person once that line has been crossed...
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