OK -- Yeah ....... I am 91.9568 % sure she is interested. There are still somethings that put my new boundaries into play, but .... I MAY be moving in the direction of a date in the near future with SIGH gal.
We have now known one another for about 10 months or so. We see one another once - twice a week through our church. We talk on the phone (some conversations for 45-90 minutes), and have a general good time.
She is caring, smart, cute, ...... yeah ... the things you generally look for.
My guard is still up (some communication with the ex), and my main focus is still on friendship. But after this last weekend, I do get the feeling that I may be needing to complicate my nice little comfortable shell of a life. We a doing a group get together this weekend, and later in the summer are going together to a big local event (just the two).
I will be honest -- I AM TERRIFIED. Life is stable now. Life is happy. Life is ...... well .... better than it has been in MANY years. Life is no longer dramatic!
-------------------- Today you are You, that is truer than true. There is no one alive who is Youer than You.
Dr. Seuss