Ok, my boss and I are pretty good friends and extremely attracted to each other. We joke around at work a lot and even go to lunch or have a drink sometimes. We are not at all compatible for a long-term relationship (I thought he was 15 years older, but found out it's closer to 20), but today we discussed a "FWB" type relationship. I have had this type of relationship in the past(ex-husband and I had a somewhat open marriage for about 5 years). The thing is, I'm really into my career and kids right now and don't necessarily have time for a real relationship. Relationships between managers and workers are pretty common in our field, so it wouldn't really be a problem if anyone found out, other than a little elbowing which we get anyway. I've only been separated since January and divorce was final about a month ago. The marriage has been over for years. I'm just getting tired of the lonely nights and trust him to be discreet and not get too involved. Is this a good idea? Has anyone else had this type of arrangement and how did it work out?