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Now, as for being played... that kind of depends upon how played. It's kind of normal for people these days to date more than once at a time and keep their options open with everyone until they choose one or the other, and then letting the others hang for a while. It's ridiculous,Relationships are harder to define these days so I am more willing to be forgiving on minor missteps at the beginning.



>>>>>>good point. im not really sure what 'played' is,
and quit possibly i was not Played, necessarily, but i Did kind of fall for a mess of what he said.
then...bamm...he was gone. LOL. such is the dating game. I admit to have done similar things myself...well, no. i NEVER say implying or direct things i dont mean.
It's interesting you bring up the "not hearing from you for weeks". LOL. It could have been days between conversations then a string of days or weeks with talking every day.
I dont know if im cut out for that kind of dating.
but that is the adult reality until someone decides what they want.


Heck, being a recent divorcee still not completely finalized, dating one guy you're not that interested in and another you're worried about because of how he played you before... I'd suggest that there are probably people who think YOU have done wrong, played someone, etc.


>>>>>>withOUT a doubt! but im being careful not to be leading anyone on. mostly. even IM not sure if i agree with all my decisions. in fact im sure i dont.
but i am NOT a player. i tried, it's just not me. sigh. what can i say. LOL.


reserve judgment until you figure out for SURE that the one you think played you was really doing something wrong (and if so, is un-repentatant about it). There's not a one of us who have ever been perfect in our dating... so if you liked him, give him another chance. Maybe he'll redeem himself.

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>>>>>>> well, this is the only guy i really ended up liking. i have NO idea why. it just was what it was.
He has apologized recently, with some possibly valid explainations. so we'll see.
i must admit...i kind of HATE liking someone and caring.
i really dont handle it well and become a bit, i dont know...attached.
i may STILL not be ready to casually date someone i get feelings for.

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