Divorce Support Forums: what do I do now?

HI- If I had him full time- he would change to schools to my zone. When his dad moves, he'll be in the school where he'll be moving to. He's in a private school right now, about ten minutes from dad and 25 from me. The problem is that school only goes to the eigth grade, so he will be going to a different school shortly anyway. The argument will be when he moves, who will my son live with?
My ex requested a court appointed attny for my son for the last case. So he interviewed with the guy, and told him he wanted to keep things the same (i.e. 50-50 custody) Now he knows that that won't be possible because of the distance, so he will be either with him or with me. He loves us both and our new families very much. We are both good parents (at least that's what I gather from what my son says.....remember, my ex and I don't talk anymore)Both households are stable, loving, and conducive to a good childhood. I guess what really pisses me off is this: The kid is happy- what mess that up? Why take away one loving parent (whether it's me or him) and destroy his little world?
and this: who the hell gives anybody the right to take away my child as long as he's happy and healthy? Isn't he just as much mine as his? jeez...

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