I caught my husband having an affair 2 months ago - our daughter did not take it well. could be that our daughter is 16 and this girl is 21 and for some reason, the girl decided to involve my daughter in her quest. In any case, my daughter was lost and in a lot of trouble. As we sat in counseling with her, my husband crying, he was leaving to go to his new 21 year old fling. We separated because there was too much arguing. My daughter went away for the night with family and I caught him in bed with this girl - AGAIN. I gave him the final ulitmatum - quit your job (they worked together) come home and help me rebuild our family. He did - that day, no questions. For 2 weeks I thought things would be OK - until I couldn't find him one evening and went looking - found him in the garage on another untraceable TRACfone with her....The phone made it to the swamp so I never saw the text messages he was sending but I'm sure they weren't meant for my eyes. For my daughter I have kept this quiet but do have to address it eventually. Now I have less than zero trust and he has no job. We've been together 20 years....we also have a son in the Navy. How on this earth can he throw this all away for someone 27 years YOUNGER than him!
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