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As for not being intimate with someone that is the object of my affection. Well, I was married and that relationship was hardly intimate most of the time, so maybe I'm a little used to that? But yeah, I'm not used to that on a new level with a stranger.

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LOL... OK... so the sex wasnt' that good in your marriage I take it?

But if it's like most marriages, you get used to being that one person being your one & only. You did NOT have long walks & talks with other women, you know? your walk/talk thing where you maybe flirted a little were (or should have been) reserved for your WIFE... the woman you went home to. And by intimacy I don't mean necessarily just doing the deed, but also ... knowing which bra she's wearing, knowing that she likes to run to the ladies room before dinner to wash her hands... knowing that if a flock of birds is on the path then she'll be queasy becasue she was frightened by the movie "the birds" when she was 15 years old. The intimacy of knowing each other, likes, dislikes, sex habits and NON-sex habits.

You're not used to having a casual, flirtatious talk with a woman whose sex habits and NON-sex habits you don't know. You're not used to the curiousity of the unknown in a potential sex partner. You're not used to the heart-pounding hope that you might be able to kiss a woman when you've never slept with her yet.

BUT you know what I'm saying... I know.

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