Nish - thanks for the advice. We have a strong enough friendship that I do feel comfortable asking her WHY she is still in contact with ex., basically uncovering if she is still hoping. I do know that she wants answers, and she knows more than he thinks she does.
the part of ..... "I am interested" .... putting myself out there ..... well I have never been good at that. I do know that is something I will have to get better at (OK I am trying to work on).
-------------------- Today you are You, that is truer than true. There is no one alive who is Youer than You.
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