yeah, I don't know if it's a matter of feeling uncomfortable or as mentioned, am I going to fast, too slow, what is safe to talk about, what isn't. Not only haven't I been in a relationship in 12 years, but I was single for awhile even before my wife.
.......and knowing how awkward I feel about some of this, it really makes me wonder how my wife was able to do it so quickly.....but then, I guess she's a slut and I'm not. :-)