Until you have the talk..about being exclusive, you are free to date others. There is a phase after divorce where it is flattering when anybody *likes* us, regardless of how much we like them back. Maybe you got caught up in that. Maybe he is a nice guy and you could really like him, but chances are, if he's the first one, it wouldnt be wise to settle right down anyways. Take it slow.. take time to figure out what you are looking for.