I regret the during the week school nights visitation. Our daughter is too tired and then sleeps on my evenings. I do all the work...get her to bed and up for school etc while he plays santa dad. I wish I would have let him have her for 1 whole week so he could pay for lunches and get her to school and have some of the difficult parts. Instead I have most of the hard stuff and she just plays with him and eats fast food. I on the other hand make sure the homework is done and wash all the clothes etc. My ex has a brain injury and I do not trust him to have her for extended periods of time. He refuses to clothe her also so I have that expense but at least I know she is covered. He sent her to school once in a skirt with no panties on! WTF?