Unlike child support, spousal support is often very difficult (if not impossible) to modify after the divorce is final, so getting it right the first time is a must!
[quote, it was agreed to to in mediation , as such , unless it was agreed to be nonmodifiable , it is subject to modification or termination . Any financial misfortune suffered by him can affect his ability to pay . Furthermore , in an original or modification proceeding, where there are no children, and a party has or acquires a separate estate, including income from employment, sufficient for the party's proper support, no support shall be ordered or continued against the other party. It's still up to a judge to decide whether the request will be granted . [/quote]
wow.
answerguy. is ss ever set up to be nonmodifiable? or is that unreasonalbe because, in reality, financial circumstances DO change? (not in MY case where my stbx is surely tanking his business and Hiding a nice % income he is making.)
in my case it would be best if it were set in stone (so to speak) as i didnt realize it could be changed. wow. will the worrying here never end?