My xh gets d12 with CP only 1 or 2 times per month for weekend visitation. Parenting Agreeement says for her to go his home every Thursday pm, but due to her medical and physical needs, during school yr. she does not go there. The problem: I am totally exhausted mentally and physically. I need a break. I want to date and move on with my life, but due to d12's needs, I can not. XH left me for a younger Korean woman (my ex-employee/friend/church member)over 2.5 yrs. ago. So now they have freedom to do whatever they want. But they don't want to care for her (because of her handicap-no walking, talking, still in diapers, must be fed, takes about one hour, etc.) Any suggestions?? I would appreciate any help. Thanks