What is the "caregiver group"? I live in a small city in NC, and I don't know of any. I need to check into that. Is that like a support group? Do you know if I take him to court, will it cost me any money. He did not pay any CS for over one year, and forced me into an agreement on his terms, and one of those was that I would not take him back to court. I had an expensive, but lousy atty.