My STBX's lady love has four kids that live with their fathers. I have primary custody of my son from marriage #1 (I am bellying up on marriage #2). My STBX used to say to me all the time that he was #1, the dogs were #2 and I was #3. I always thought he was joking but I guess the joke was on me. My STBX has always married women with children. That is the main reason why I hope that his lady love is his everlasting love, I would hate for more kids to go through the destruction that he has caused in so many lives.
-------------------- I'm a living sunset... there's light in my bones. You can push me to the edge, but my will is stone!