Just a warning, Tranqu. He's going to find you just that much more irresistable, now that you've put him off. Now comes the full court press.
Men love the chase and excitement of the unattainable. If you think he's given up - think again. And it will be so flattering. You're a conquest for him. I would not be surprised if he makes a game out of it and has done this with many other women.
I once had a married music friend court me in this way. It was shortly after my divorce. He showered me with gifts, called, came over and gave me a message (not sexual) and slowly hunted me. I was very attracted. He was cool, discreet, generous and sensual.
At the end of the day, I didn't want to be another notch on his bedpost. I wanted better things for myself and knew I'd be shutting them off if I played around with him.
I told him to buzz off in no uncertain terms. He tried a few times to light my fire, but I wouldn't budge.
No regrets here.
-------------------- The sweetest thing you'll ever see in the whole wide world is a happy girl.