Yes I am paying around 200.00 more than would be required by law. My current wife earns a great salary and is able to help out despite the fact that she has an 11yo and never received a penny from her ex. But when I am ready to retire, I will have the conversation with my ex. If she isn't understanding of the fact that I would need a bit of time to figure out what I want to do, it will be up to her to take me to court and at that point, it will be for an initial child support order, and she will end up getting less anyway. Thanks again