I just had my hearing today...my stbx wasn't able to get child support or spousal support....however, he had his sister write a letter saying that she provides child care for my son during the day, which isn't true...my mother-in-law agreed to watch our son for no charge to help us out....it's strange all of a sudden they now want money...also, since my name is still on the mortgage, my husband wants me to make payments....i will end up having to pay my stbx up to $400.00. What can i do??...how do i force him to sell the house or should i sign the house over to him???....i need help!