You're going to let the OW and your minor SON dictate what's best for your son? I'd think long and hard about that. If you're trying to save your son from trouble, do it. Moving him to another school will remove the constant bad influence his friends are pushing on him. He still would probably see them after school, but there would be much more time away from them and he might even grow out of their friendship if he meets new kids at the new school.