Divorce Support Forums: Question about adultery

Thanks faith4two, it was your post I read in the first place, and you seem to be paying attention to what I'm saying beside thinking I'm a piece of crap.

The bio father is all willing to sign the paper for his baby, and I really have no doubts that the stbx will sign the denial. Thanks for the inner information, and processes. Like i said last time i talked to the stbx (and haven't since then because he cussed me out like a dog which is recorded on a micro recorder) accused me of being pregnant when he had no ideas. Like it was some sort of ammunition for him in court. So trying to find out where I was standing in that situation if it was brought up, because I'm not a lawyer I don't know how it looks in the eyes of a judge when it's blurted out "she got pregnant by another man!!!" when he had another woman moved in with him a month after the separation. If it all came down to it, the stbx's sister in law at one point out right told me if I needed to bring her into court, she would be on my side, but I don't plan on anything like that going down, she also is the one who contacted ME due to my babies teling me " you need to get your daughter at the very least she's had lice for 3 months he hasn't taken her to the dr. and she's always dirty never has clean clothes on." I told her about the bruise on my daughters ear, and she outright told me, that my son has been having them on his ear as well (3 as a matter of fact to her recollection) CPS was also called on my son on the behalf of the school he was enrolled into, because he kept "having accidents" on himself, and my son was fully potty trained at 3 yrs old knew how to say potty and the works, and apparently, if after 9 months of being in school the school then decides to call CPS on the stbx then what happened? They don't just outright call CPS for nothing in those cases, the childs parents are notifies first, I know and the sister in law knows BECAUSE her son had the same problem, and she was contacted more than just ONCE for the incident, and they never called CPS on her for it either,I'm told to leave this all at the door, but this isn't anger, this is plain and simple fact. if anyone starts with the "he said she said, he did she did" it will be my stbx. Not me, my whole state of mind is " go in get it done we argued enough during the marriage, why keep prolonging it especially when this man thinks he's an innocent angel." Which IMHO, thats why he ran out and got a lawyer because he knows he would, and would be shot down in an instant, and I'm sure with everything he says, his lawyer is telling him to shut up, and let the lawyer handle it. I talk to his lawyer more than he does, I am the one who gives the lawyer the information, and I'm the one his lawyer contacts when he needs information about the children. Now, doesn't that just paint a lovely picture. My only concern about the whole thing is that, STBX's lawyer is an EX judge of a small town/county, who knows all the judges on the golf course.

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