Perhaps my efforts as well as those of others here are finally doing some good! Reading the following report that men are now largely avoiding marriage because of the likelihood of divorce, and its dangers to them, was very gratifying to me and I'd like to share it:
"THOSE WHO WERE FINANCIALLY SOUND WERE TERRIFIED WHAT A BAD DIVORCE COULD DO TO THEM"*..."One thing I found a little surprising is this: Weisman said his research blew away any idea that single men were unhappy...A compelling issue was how many of them had found contentment in a never-married life", he said. "They had created lives full of careers, friends and ambitions. It was not like they walk around all day worried about not being married."
"I'm of the general opinion that marriage and fatherhood is a good thing for men, and that unfortunately IT HAS BEEN POISONED TO SOME DEGREE BY OUR ANTI-MALE FAMILY LAW SYSTEM. Perhaps more of these bachelors are happy being single, as this research suggests."
Perhaps men are not the stupid, hormone-controlled fools that politicians, the law, lawyers and many women assume. The comments and experiences of many of the subscribers to the subject web site, made on the blog for this article, were especially revealing.
You can fool some men all of the time, or you can fool all men some of the time, but you cannot fool all men all of the time!