Unlike child support, spousal support is often very difficult (if not impossible) to modify after the divorce is final, so getting it right the first time is a must!
Yes , there was a case in NJ where a mother was convicted of involuntary manslaughter for the death of her son . The father moved to terminate SS but was denied .
-------------------- Never let your sense of morals get in the way of doing what's right. Isaac Asimov