And I would like to add that no one insinuated anything about your personal character. We have all been through (and many still going through) our own things here... Not everyone will agree with you, yet chances are you will find someone who does even when there are those that don't. I was unclear why you were asking about your unborn child, so I simply included my opinion... of course that would have been different had I known that your situation didn't warrant that.
-------------------- "Success is not final, failure is not fatal: it is the courage to continue that counts."